Dads and Doulas
This page is dedicated to the Dads who worked hard with their Doulas and to give
light to their experiences. In childbirth, all the focus is usually on  mom, but I feel that  
Dads are just as important and it is my goal to involve them as much as they want to be .
It is not the job of the Doula to take the place of the Dad, but rather to bring him
closer to the labor and birth of his baby.
I believe that the Dad and Doula are a team and work together to comfort the laboring
mother. She needs the love and support of her partner and she needs the physical comfort
offered by the Doula. Often times, dads that are uncertain about facing labor become a
more involved partner with the help of the Doula. He is able to participate to the level that
he is comfortable and at the same time he knows his wife is being cared for continuously if
he needs to step back for a moment. I find this knowledge often allows a Dad to participate
more fully in the birth of his child because he does not feel that he has to shoulder all the
responsibility of comfort in an experience that is foreign to him.